While everyone feels great about having a large group of friends, the truth is that many of our relationships are based on opportunity. So you could be friends with people you work with every day, a shopkeeper who you see almost every other day, or members of a sports club or other activity that you see nearly every week.

雖然我們每個人都會因為有一大群朋友感到很棒，但事實上我們的許多關系都是以機會為基礎的。所以你可以與你每天一起工作的人，幾乎每隔一天就看見你的店主，運動俱樂部以及幾乎每周看的其他活動的成員成為朋友。

With relationships being largely focused on activities or physical proximity, it is possible that your friends do not know a lot about you. Here are 4 things your friends may not know about you or you may not know about them.

這種關系大多數是集中于活動或者身體的接近，很可能你的朋友對你了解的很少。下面是你的朋友或許不了解你的或者不知道的4件事。

1. What you really do

1.你真正的職業

Many people openly admit they do not know what their friends do for a living. Most friends have a general idea of each other’s line of work, but they are actually surprised when they learn the exact details.

許多人都公開承認他們并不知道他們的朋友以什么謀生。大多數朋友對對方的工作線只是有一個大致的概念，但是當他們知道具體細節的手，他們實際上感到很吃驚。

2. What your password is

2.你的密碼

Now granted, this may not be the case with everyone, but a lot of people have one or more trustworthy friends who know the passwords to their phone, computer, or email just in case of an emergency.

現在同意吧，這或許并不適用于所有人，但是大多數人有一個或者更多值得信賴的朋友，他們會知道你的手機、電腦或者郵件密碼，為了防止緊急情況。

3. What TV shows you secretly love

3.你私底下喜愛的電視節目

So you are a guy who enjoys romantic comedies, or a girl who loves to watch action movies but guess what – most of your friends will not be aware of what TV shows you enjoy. And of course, it does not help that you pretend to love whatever show your entire group is talking about.

所以你是喜歡浪漫愛情劇的男人，或者是喜歡看動作片的女孩，但是猜一下——你的大多數朋友不會知道你喜歡看什么電視節目。而且當然，即使你假裝喜歡整個朋友圈都在討論的電視節目，也沒什么用。

4. How bad you are at technology

4.你在科技方面有多弱

Now you should be fairly proficient with your cell phone and in using a computer, but there are just some things that no one gets right. Most of your friends would be horrified if they saw you use a computer that slow – this works the other way around too.

現在你應該對手機和電腦操作非常的熟練，但是也有一些事情是沒有人弄明白的。大多數朋友在看到你操作電腦非常慢的時候，會感到害怕——如果你看到你的朋友電腦操作很爛的時候，你也會感到很詫異。

While everyone feels great about having a large group of friends, the truth is that many of our relationships are based on opportunity. So you could be friends with people you work with every day, a shopkeeper who you see almost every other day, or members of a sports club or other activity that you see nearly every week.

雖然我們每個人都會因為有一大群朋友感到很棒，但事實上我們的許多關系都是以機會為基礎的。所以你可以與你每天一起工作的人，幾乎每隔一天就看見你的店主，運動俱樂部以及幾乎每周看的其他活動的成員成為朋友。

With relationships being largely focused on activities or physical proximity, it is possible that your friends do not know a lot about you. Here are 4 things your friends may not know about you or you may not know about them.

這種關系大多數是集中于活動或者身體的接近，很可能你的朋友對你了解的很少。下面是你的朋友或許不了解你的或者不知道的4件事。

1. What you really do

1.你真正的職業

Many people openly admit they do not know what their friends do for a living. Most friends have a general idea of each other’s line of work, but they are actually surprised when they learn the exact details.

許多人都公開承認他們并不知道他們的朋友以什么謀生。大多數朋友對對方的工作線只是有一個大致的概念，但是當他們知道具體細節的手，他們實際上感到很吃驚。

2. What your password is

2.你的密碼

Now granted, this may not be the case with everyone, but a lot of people have one or more trustworthy friends who know the passwords to their phone, computer, or email just in case of an emergency.

現在同意吧，這或許并不適用于所有人，但是大多數人有一個或者更多值得信賴的朋友，他們會知道你的手機、電腦或者郵件密碼，為了防止緊急情況。

3. What TV shows you secretly love

3.你私底下喜愛的電視節目

So you are a guy who enjoys romantic comedies, or a girl who loves to watch action movies but guess what – most of your friends will not be aware of what TV shows you enjoy. And of course, it does not help that you pretend to love whatever show your entire group is talking about.

所以你是喜歡浪漫愛情劇的男人，或者是喜歡看動作片的女孩，但是猜一下——你的大多數朋友不會知道你喜歡看什么電視節目。而且當然，即使你假裝喜歡整個朋友圈都在討論的電視節目，也沒什么用。

4. How bad you are at technology

4.你在科技方面有多弱

Now you should be fairly proficient with your cell phone and in using a computer, but there are just some things that no one gets right. Most of your friends would be horrified if they saw you use a computer that slow – this works the other way around too.

現在你應該對手機和電腦操作非常的熟練，但是也有一些事情是沒有人弄明白的。大多數朋友在看到你操作電腦非常慢的時候，會感到害怕——如果你看到你的朋友電腦操作很爛的時候，你也會感到很詫異。